非凡的家庭教育

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文/宇亮Article by Yu Liang 父親十三歲時(shí)寫過(guò)幾句話大志滿天下獨(dú)步半邊天欲作丹青妙雄照群生處后來(lái)發(fā)表在《藝術(shù)日志》里這也許就是他的人生寫照吧Father wrote a few lines when he was thirteen years old.Great ambition fills the world. Walk alone and rule half the sky. Desire to create wonderful paintings. Shine brightly among all beings.Later, it was published in "The Art Journal". Perhaps this is a portrayal of his life. ??特別鳴謝美國(guó)華爾街衛(wèi)視創(chuàng)始人季小華先生?? Special thanks to Mr. Ji Xiaohua, the founder of Wall Street TV in the United States. 　　哪吒2票房取得巨大的成功，把一個(gè)籍籍無(wú)名的臥薪嘗膽的四川籍導(dǎo)演餃子先生一夜之間推向了世界頂級(jí)動(dòng)漫導(dǎo)演的位置。 這件光芒四射的勵(lì)志事件百分之百的告誡我們一個(gè)事實(shí)，無(wú)論在任何時(shí)候，當(dāng)我們面對(duì)巨大的困難時(shí)，都要保持一顆積極向上的決心，永遠(yuǎn)不要向現(xiàn)實(shí)低頭和投降，任何困難都只是暫時(shí)的。所以，作為年輕人，我們一定要相信通過(guò)自己不懈的努力將來(lái)一定會(huì)有所為。 作為父母，也要堅(jiān)信自己的孩子將來(lái)一定會(huì)有所作為。即便一個(gè)人沒(méi)有任何的耀眼背景，但只要努力做出一件非凡的貢獻(xiàn)就完全可以改天逆命。不管是頂級(jí)富豪還是貧民的孩子都需要付出絕對(duì)的努力，為社會(huì)做出一定的貢獻(xiàn)，才能夠富可為繼，貧可改善命運(yùn)。 所以擁有一顆平實(shí)的心態(tài)平靜的去看待人生是很重要的，讓得意忘形的人銘記生活從來(lái)沒(méi)有高枕無(wú)憂的永恒，也讓生活條件跌入谷底的窮人銘記生活沒(méi)有一成不變的規(guī)則。無(wú)論貧富都需要永恒不變的努力和勤奮，這是保持持續(xù)發(fā)展的唯一可行性。 這里需要特別強(qiáng)調(diào)的是，父母堅(jiān)定改變命運(yùn)的信念意識(shí)決定孩子未來(lái)的順利成長(zhǎng)。 就拿我自己來(lái)說(shuō)，如果沒(méi)有父母的清醒頭腦，我會(huì)因?yàn)槊看慰荚嚥粔蚶硐攵鵁溃瑫?huì)因?yàn)楦改覆恢С肿约旱母鞣N開(kāi)銷而憤怒。我今天取得的一點(diǎn)成績(jī)，是父母用最大的包容心融化了我這個(gè)年齡思想的不成熟。從小親身體驗(yàn)了父母大愛(ài)的心靈，見(jiàn)證了他們是如何持續(xù)不斷的奮斗的，見(jiàn)證了他們是如何胸懷天下的。這對(duì)年幼的我來(lái)說(shuō)從不可思議到理解，從理解到欽佩，從欽佩到尊敬，從尊敬到崇拜，這是需要一個(gè)漫長(zhǎng)的過(guò)程去感悟的。 因此，我從來(lái)不會(huì)因?yàn)樵趯W(xué)校考試不理想而沮喪，也從不會(huì)因?yàn)楦改笇?duì)自己的不理解而叛逆。相反，我今天年少成名，就是因?yàn)橹孕淖冯S和絕對(duì)配合父母的共同努力一起奮斗而成就了今天的壯舉。 從小我就知道我的祖父是很勵(lì)志的，我的爺爺也是很勵(lì)志的，到我父親這一輩，更是非常勵(lì)志的。父親對(duì)研究學(xué)問(wèn)的嚴(yán)謹(jǐn)程度無(wú)可挑剔，父親做事的風(fēng)格言出必行，父親的勤奮和努力是超負(fù)荷的。 父親是一個(gè)很重感情的人，對(duì)出生的故土和早已駕鶴西去的父母懷念是強(qiáng)烈的。父親對(duì)朋友是真情流露的，一旦認(rèn)定一個(gè)人就成天念念著這個(gè)人的名字，神情滿是思念。父親對(duì)親人是充滿感激的，始終銘記哥哥姐姐曾經(jīng)對(duì)自己的好。父親對(duì)家人是嚴(yán)厲的，認(rèn)為良好的家風(fēng)很重要。父親的思維是非凡的，他常常以不可思議的思維突破一些常人看起來(lái)不可能改變的事情，一旦決定便可行動(dòng)成功。父親從來(lái)不是一個(gè)大男子主義者，凡是總是謙虛的向每個(gè)人請(qǐng)教，無(wú)論男女老幼和高人普通人，這也讓他非常受人們歡迎。父親是一個(gè)耿直的人，說(shuō)話做事從來(lái)沒(méi)有讓人費(fèi)盡心思去揣測(cè)，總是直來(lái)直去，這又讓很多人對(duì)他信心十足。父親與人交流，語(yǔ)言極富哲理，讓人回味無(wú)窮，這就是他人緣結(jié)神的原因。他總是力所能及的幫助遇到困難的人，這已經(jīng)成為他舉手之勞的常態(tài)。 他有一顆非凡的頭腦，對(duì)自己的要求總是很高，只要能夠想到的新奇念頭，就一定有結(jié)果，非常果斷靈活。父親耀眼的氣質(zhì)照亮了我的生活，是我一路前行的一束光，同樣也是很多反應(yīng)快速的人的一盞明燈。 我的總結(jié)是，父親從來(lái)不焦慮，不情緒化。他與很多陌生人形同熟人，總是在第一時(shí)間讓對(duì)方心里溫暖，給人送去斗志，很智慧的指引別人向高處挑戰(zhàn)。在我的意識(shí)里，父親總是充分的發(fā)現(xiàn)別人的優(yōu)點(diǎn)，總希望別人發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的優(yōu)點(diǎn)和相信自己的優(yōu)點(diǎn)。這讓他又贏得了很多朋友。 父親對(duì)子女的教育是非常嚴(yán)格的，但是教育的方式卻是非常智慧的，很令人心動(dòng)和信服。我見(jiàn)識(shí)了父親的思維時(shí)時(shí)刻刻都在更新中，讓人總是把握不住他下一秒又會(huì)說(shuō)出什么新鮮的想法來(lái)？更搞不清楚下一刻他又會(huì)投入哪一項(xiàng)工作？他每天千奇百怪的思維轉(zhuǎn)換永遠(yuǎn)讓人難以捉摸。 父親每周會(huì)給我們開(kāi)家庭會(huì)議，讓每個(gè)人盡情的說(shuō)出個(gè)人的觀點(diǎn)和想法，我認(rèn)為父親是一個(gè)一流的演說(shuō)家，你提出的任何問(wèn)題，他都會(huì)做到秒反應(yīng)。這就是我的家庭的日常動(dòng)態(tài)。 父親始終用高度的藝術(shù)審美感化著我們的心靈和社會(huì)上形形色色的人，他那么的惜時(shí)如金，因?yàn)樗杏肋h(yuǎn)做不完的工作，但是他還是靜下心來(lái)很認(rèn)真的關(guān)注每個(gè)需要幫助的人的訴求，幫助別人排憂。 因此，父親得到了聯(lián)合國(guó)教科文組織官方項(xiàng)目博物館的表彰成為了美育杰出貢獻(xiàn)名師，同時(shí)還取得了中國(guó)科學(xué)院心理研究所心理咨詢師的權(quán)威認(rèn)證。 父親總是說(shuō)：一個(gè)人有多少能力就要去做多少事。父親是全世界最年輕的藝術(shù)家中獲得世界頂級(jí)藝術(shù)殿堂終身藝術(shù)成就獎(jiǎng)的創(chuàng)造性藝術(shù)家，他把傳統(tǒng)的高度審美和現(xiàn)代的高度審美與他探索的異度空間的高度審美不斷的傳遞給眾人。他認(rèn)為，美是可以凈化一個(gè)人的心靈的，這是人們向善與和睦相處的基礎(chǔ)。他認(rèn)為教育首先是心靈的教育，知識(shí)和技術(shù)是其次。我認(rèn)為這是很正確一種教育方式。父親對(duì)我們說(shuō)將來(lái)要把這些教育理念擴(kuò)大普及力度，讓更多的人受益。父親常用共勉與人們?nèi)〉霉餐M(jìn)步。這，就是我的父親。 父親早年時(shí)培養(yǎng)的學(xué)生考取名校的很多，但父親認(rèn)為，這些學(xué)生后來(lái)都無(wú)一成才。并總結(jié)了教訓(xùn)，千篇一律的傳統(tǒng)藝術(shù)教學(xué)是學(xué)生沒(méi)有取得創(chuàng)新成果的根源。于是，父親不再涉及高考藝術(shù)教育，轉(zhuǎn)而投入精力在邏輯思維教學(xué)上，我和妹妹就是最早接受這種奇妙思維教育的實(shí)踐者。 我還記得父親最好的大學(xué)教授曾經(jīng)問(wèn)過(guò)父親：“孩子才六歲，你給孩子講的這些知識(shí)，孩子能聽(tīng)得懂嗎？連我都聽(tīng)不懂！這樣教育真的有效嗎？你這是不是在拔苗助長(zhǎng)啊？”還有電視臺(tái)的一個(gè)領(lǐng)導(dǎo)對(duì)父親說(shuō)過(guò)：“你們看的這些書(shū)籍，我聽(tīng)都沒(méi)聽(tīng)過(guò)說(shuō)過(guò)喲”，后來(lái)父親對(duì)母親說(shuō)：“為什么一定非要?jiǎng)e人懂？我懂就行！” 幾年后，父親讓我的學(xué)習(xí)正式投入實(shí)戰(zhàn)，起步就進(jìn)軍國(guó)際頂尖平臺(tái)，并已在書(shū)法、科幻文學(xué)、科技創(chuàng)新、演講、思維和聲樂(lè)等領(lǐng)域取得五十多項(xiàng)大獎(jiǎng)，尤其是在創(chuàng)新領(lǐng)域取得的全球頂級(jí)思維權(quán)威認(rèn)證給我的學(xué)習(xí)生活帶來(lái)的影響力。這是父親獨(dú)特教育的成功。 父親本身就是一個(gè)始終喜歡自我挑戰(zhàn)奇跡的人，如今為了我們，所挑戰(zhàn)的領(lǐng)域越來(lái)越寬越來(lái)越廣。他說(shuō)：只有他自己先做到了，才能夠把握我們的學(xué)習(xí)方向。父親已經(jīng)習(xí)慣了挑戰(zhàn)性的學(xué)習(xí)和工作，認(rèn)為知識(shí)越廣闊，鉆研越深入，技能越精湛，人的思維也就變得越來(lái)越活躍。他說(shuō)為此他用了近二十年的時(shí)間堅(jiān)持不懈的鍛煉自己的腦力和對(duì)各種事物的辨識(shí)度。據(jù)父親自己回憶，他判斷大事物和判斷大事物的發(fā)展從來(lái)是精準(zhǔn)無(wú)誤。根據(jù)近八年來(lái)父親讓我們參與的各種社會(huì)實(shí)踐中，確實(shí)做到了精準(zhǔn)判斷。 有領(lǐng)導(dǎo)曾問(wèn)父親是如何做到與世界各地的人溝通的？父親說(shuō)：“閉著眼睛與世界進(jìn)行神交”。跟在父親貼身的觀察，這話好像沒(méi)錯(cuò)，父親總是第一時(shí)間準(zhǔn)確判斷地球另一端的人們心理動(dòng)向和事物的發(fā)展動(dòng)向。如果近距離交往，別人的心思基本上是藏不住父親的火眼金睛的。每當(dāng)我處于疑惑時(shí)，接著而來(lái)的事實(shí)又很快的顛覆了我的認(rèn)知。 父親做事目標(biāo)明確，正如他自己說(shuō)的自己從來(lái)沒(méi)浪費(fèi)過(guò)時(shí)間。處事通情達(dá)理，他說(shuō)做人良知永遠(yuǎn)是第一位。 太多的人驚嘆父親就是一部很傳奇的人生，常有人建議父親把自己的經(jīng)歷寫成書(shū)。后父親對(duì)我們說(shuō)：這不是他該關(guān)心的事，他的任務(wù)是創(chuàng)造奇跡和享受這種奇跡發(fā)生的過(guò)程，而不是浪費(fèi)時(shí)間去做這些個(gè)沒(méi)有意義的事情。 父親的每一天都在學(xué)習(xí)、研究、探索和投入實(shí)踐，仿佛他的人生就是永遠(yuǎn)為進(jìn)行著創(chuàng)造而生。我一路感受到這種強(qiáng)烈的創(chuàng)造給我們的人生成長(zhǎng)帶來(lái)了無(wú)窮無(wú)盡的新鮮感，也許這就是奮斗的意義吧。2025年2月16日 　　The box office of Ne Zha 2 achieved great success, pushing Mr. Jiaozi, an unknown and persevering director from Sichuan Province, to the position of a world-class animation director overnight. This shining and inspiring event warns us one hundred percent of a fact that no matter at any time, when we are faced with huge difficulties, we must maintain a positive determination and never bow or surrender to reality. Any difficulty is only temporary. Therefore, as young people, we must believe that through our unremitting efforts, we will surely achieve something in the future. As parents, they should also firmly believe that their children will surely achieve something in the future. Even if a person has no dazzling background, as long as they make an extraordinary contribution through efforts, they can completely change their destiny. Whether it is the children of top tycoons or the poor, they all need to make absolute efforts and make certain contributions to society in order to be able to continue to be rich or improve their fate if they are poor. Therefore, it is very important to have a calm and plain mindset to view life. Let those who are carried away remember that life has never been worry-free and eternal, and let the poor whose living conditions have hit rock bottom remember that life has no unchangeable rules. Both the rich and the poor need constant efforts and diligence, which is the only feasibility for maintaining sustainable development. What needs to be particularly emphasized here is that parents' firm belief and awareness of changing destiny determine the smooth growth of their children in the future. Take myself as an example. Without my parents' clear minds, I would be troubled by every less-than-ideal exam result and angry because my parents did not support my various expenses. The little achievements I have made today are because my parents used their greatest tolerance to melt the immaturity of my thoughts at this age. I have personally experienced my parents' great love since childhood, witnessed how they have continued to strive, and witnessed how they have held the world in their hearts. For the young me, it has been a long process to go from being inconceivable to understanding, from understanding to admiration, from admiration to respect, and from respect to worship. Therefore, I have never been depressed because of the unsatisfactory exam results at school, nor have I ever been rebellious because of my parents' lack of understanding of me. On the contrary, I became famous at a young age today precisely because I sincerely followed and absolutely cooperated with my parents' joint efforts and struggles to achieve today's feat. 　　Since I was a child, I have known that my grandfather was very inspiring, my grandpa was also very inspiring, and in my father's generation, it was even more so. My father's rigor in academic research is impeccable. His style of doing things is that he always keeps his word. His diligence and efforts are overwhelming. My father is a very emotional person. His longing for his native land and his parents who have passed away is intense. My father is sincere to his friends. Once he recognizes someone, he keeps thinking about this person's name all day, and his expression is full of missing. My father is grateful to his relatives and always remembers the kindness his elder brothers and sisters once showed him. My father is strict with his family, believing that a good family tradition is very important. My father's thinking is extraordinary. He often breaks through some things that seem impossible to change for ordinary people with incredible thinking. Once he decides, he can act successfully. My father has never been a male chauvinist. He is always humble to ask everyone for advice, regardless of men, women, old and young, and experts or ordinary people. This also makes him very popular. My father is a straightforward person. He never makes people rack their brains to guess when speaking and doing things. He is always direct, which makes many people have full confidence in him. When my father communicates with others, his language is extremely philosophical and leaves people with endless aftertaste. This is why he is so popular. He always does his best to help people in trouble. This has become his normal practice. 　　He has an extraordinary mind and always demands a lot from himself. Whenever he has a novel idea, there will definitely be an outcome. He is very decisive and flexible. My father's dazzling temperament has illuminated my life. It is a light for me to move forward all the way and also a guiding light for many quick-reacting people. My conclusion is that father is never anxious or emotional. He treats many strangers as if they were acquaintances and always warms their hearts at the first moment, giving them fighting spirit and guiding them wisely to challenge higher places. In my consciousness, father always fully discovers the strengths of others and always hopes that others will discover and believe in their own strengths. This has won him many friends again. Father is very strict in the education of his children, but the way of education is very wise and very attractive and convincing. I have witnessed that father's thinking is constantly updated. People can never grasp what fresh ideas he will come up with in the next second? It's even more unclear which job he will be engaged in next moment? His strange thinking transitions every day are always elusive. Father holds a family meeting for us every week, allowing everyone to express their personal viewpoints and ideas to their heart's content. I think father is a first-class orator. For any question you raise, he can respond instantly. This is the daily dynamic of my family. Father has always influenced our hearts and all kinds of people in society with a high degree of artistic aesthetics. He values time as precious as gold because he has endless work to do, but he still calms down and seriously pays attention to the demands of each person in need of help and helps others solve their problems. Therefore, father was commended by the official project museum of UNESCO and became an outstanding contributing teacher in aesthetic education. At the same time, he also obtained the authoritative certification of a psychological counselor from the Institute of Psychology of the Chinese Academy of Sciences. Father always says: One should do as much as one's ability allows. Father is the youngest artist in the world to receive the Lifetime Artistic Achievement Award from the world's top art hall as a creative artist. He constantly conveys the traditional high-level aesthetics, modern high-level aesthetics, and the high-level aesthetics of the other-dimensional space he explores to everyone. He believes that beauty can purify a person's soul, which is the basis for people to be kind and get along harmoniously. He believes that education is first and foremost the education of the soul, and knowledge and skills come second. I think this is a very correct way of education. Father told us that in the future, these educational concepts will be expanded and popularized to benefit more people. Father often encourages mutual efforts to make common progress with people. This is my father. In his early years, many of the students father trained were admitted to prestigious schools. But father believed that none of these students became successful later. And he summed up the lesson that the uniform traditional art teaching was the root cause that students did not achieve innovative results. Thus, father no longer involved in art education for the college entrance examination and instead devoted his energy to teaching logical thinking. My sister and I were the earliest practitioners to receive this wonderful thinking education. I still remember that the best university professor of father once asked him: "The child is only six years old. Can the child understand the knowledge you tell the child? Even I don't understand! Is this kind of education really effective? Are you spoiling the child by doing this?" And a leader of the TV station said to father: "I have never even heard of the books you read." Later, father said to mother: "Why does it have to be understood by others? As long as I understand it!" 　　A few years later, father made my study officially go into actual combat. I started to enter the international top platforms and have won more than fifty awards in fields such as calligraphy, science fiction literature, technological innovation, speech, thinking, and vocal music. Especially the global top-level thinking authority certification obtained in the field of innovation has had an impact on my study life. This is the success of father's unique education. Father himself is a person who always likes to challenge miracles. Now, for us, the fields he challenges are getting wider and broader. He said: Only when he achieves it himself can he grasp the direction of our studies. Father has been accustomed to challenging learning and work. He believes that the broader the knowledge, the deeper the research, the more exquisite the skills, and the more active a person's thinking becomes. He said that for this, he spent nearly twenty years constantly exercising his brainpower and discrimination of various things. According to father's own recollection, his judgment of major events and the development of major events has always been precise and correct. Based on the various social practices that father has let us participate in in the past eight years, he has indeed made precise judgments. Some leaders once asked father how he managed to communicate with people from all over the world? Father said: "Communicate with the world with closed eyes in a spiritual way." Observing closely by father's side, it seems that this statement is correct. Father always accurately judges the psychological trends and the development trends of things of people on the other side of the earth in the first place. If in close contact, others' thoughts basically can't hide from father's piercing eyes. Whenever I am in doubt, the subsequent facts quickly subvert my cognition. 　　Father has clear goals when doing things. Just as he said himself, he has never wasted time. He handles affairs sensibly and says that conscience is always the first in life. Too many people are amazed that father has a very legendary life. People often suggest that father write his experiences into a book. Later, father told us: This is not something he should care about. His task is to create miracles and enjoy the process of such miracles happening, instead of wasting time doing these meaningless things. Father studies, researches, explores and engages in practice every day. It seems that his life is always for creation. I have felt all the way that this strong creation has brought endless freshness to our life growth. Perhaps this is the meaning of striving.February 16, 2025 　　作者簡(jiǎn)介：宇亮。中國(guó)藝術(shù)聯(lián)盟東部地區(qū)主席，世界藝術(shù)中心思維聯(lián)盟主席。國(guó)家一級(jí)協(xié)會(huì)音樂(lè)教育專業(yè)委員會(huì)終身委員，全國(guó)唯一書(shū)法研究院終身研究員。中國(guó)政府獎(jiǎng)百花獎(jiǎng)最高獎(jiǎng)金星，中國(guó)國(guó)際巔峰學(xué)術(shù)展金獎(jiǎng)，意大利威尼斯政府國(guó)際藝術(shù)組織委員會(huì)主席最佳創(chuàng)意獎(jiǎng)，聯(lián)合國(guó)教科文組織總部杰出獎(jiǎng)，西班牙國(guó)際藝術(shù)大賽金獎(jiǎng)，美國(guó)國(guó)際頂級(jí)藝術(shù)大師獎(jiǎng)得主，法國(guó)國(guó)際藝術(shù)大賽大師級(jí)思想獎(jiǎng)，世界藝術(shù)中心百國(guó)思維總決賽一等獎(jiǎng)，聯(lián)合國(guó)總部佳作獎(jiǎng)。截止目前曾在書(shū)法、思維、藝術(shù)、科技、科幻等頂端國(guó)際大賽中獲五十余次大獎(jiǎng)。是世界藝術(shù)中心公布的世界上最好的十位亞洲藝術(shù)家之一，名字列入世界70個(gè)國(guó)家的全球50位最佳當(dāng)代藝術(shù)家名單。全球百家媒體報(bào)道。美國(guó)華爾街衛(wèi)視特別報(bào)道。 　　Author Profile: Yu Liang. Chairperson of the Eastern Region of the China Art League, Chairperson of the World Art Center Thought League. Lifelong member of the Music Education Professional Committee of the first-level national association, and lifelong researcher of the only calligraphy research institute in the country. Winner of the Golden Star, the highest award of the Hundred Flowers Award of the Chinese government, the Gold Award of the China International Peak Academic Exhibition, the Best Creativity Award of the Chairman of the International Art Organization Committee of the Venice Government of Italy, the Outstanding Award of the Headquarters of UNESCO, the Gold Award of the International Art Competition in Spain, the winner of the International Top Art Master Award in the United States, the Master Thought Award of the French International Art Competition, the first prize of the World Art Center Hundred Nations Thought Finals, and the Excellent Work Award of the United Nations Headquarters. Up to now, he has won more than fifty major awards in top international competitions such as calligraphy, thinking, art, technology, and science fiction. He is one of the top ten best Asian artists announced by the World Art Center and his name is included in the list of the 50 best contemporary artists in the world in 70 countries. Reported by hundreds of media worldwide.Special Report by Wall Street TV of the United States.

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