算太精的人，不適合來往

有些人，可能不愛說漂亮話，但卻真心實(shí)意，一切用事實(shí)說話。而有些人看似對你好，場面話說的一套又一套，實(shí)際都是為了利用你，處處算計(jì)，處處精明。

算太精的人，任何時(shí)候都不會讓自己吃虧，更是任何時(shí)候都不會犧牲自己的利益。與他們交往過多，最后受傷害的只有自己。

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算太精的人，永遠(yuǎn)只為了自己

一個過于精明的人，在與別人交往時(shí)，他內(nèi)心的一切心理活動和行為都是在考慮自己的得失利益。無論是對誰，都不會心存感激或者善意。

當(dāng)自己遇到麻煩的時(shí)候，會想盡辦法讓別人去替自己解決，給自己省錢省力。當(dāng)別人找他幫忙時(shí)，他就會在內(nèi)心計(jì)算利益，對自己有利或者能夠獲得利益才會出手。

這樣的人，是極度的利己主義者。也許他們情商很高，知道如何躲避麻煩，或者懂得如何抓住人心讓別人信任和崇拜自己。但最終的目的，還是為了自己。

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與太過精明的人交往，只會讓自己受累

精明的人的確能說會道，他們的精明已經(jīng)養(yǎng)成了習(xí)慣，總是能夠在生活中侃侃而談?wù)故咀约海{(diào)動情緒，讓自己處于高處，俯視別人。

有時(shí)候我們分不清對方到底是真的有能力還是真的太精明，他們表面上很在意我們，但其實(shí)真正涉及到利益的時(shí)候，他們在乎的只有自己。

無論是在感情中還是工作中，遇到這樣的人如果不能及時(shí)辨別，與之交往，很可能自己忙活半天最后既輸了感情又輸了人。

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算計(jì)別人的人，其實(shí)就是在算計(jì)自己

其實(shí)，太過精明太愛算計(jì)的人，最后都不會有好下場。人與人之間的信任，不是靠算計(jì)就能搭建的起來的。真正的成事，更不是靠算計(jì)就能夠贏得了所有的。

算計(jì)別人的開始，就是失去人心的開始，沒有人是真正的傻子，會讓自己一直吃虧去成全那個算計(jì)自己的人。當(dāng)所有人都了解他的本性，他就再也無人可算計(jì)了。

唯利是圖，一點(diǎn)利益都不舍得丟棄，一點(diǎn)損失都不能讓自己沾上，最后一定不會有任何的收獲。因?yàn)樗械纳吩缇捅蛔约航o堵死了，所有的人都被他得罪光了。

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厚道待人，才能成就自己

這個世界，適者生存，但人畢竟是人，是人就會有情感。沒有人會喜歡一個內(nèi)心冰冷毫無感情的人，我們需要利益，但絕不是利益至上。

做人，防人之心不可無，但太過精明了，糊弄得了一時(shí)，糊弄不了一輩子。這個社會更多的還是需要腳踏實(shí)地，實(shí)實(shí)在在做事情的人。

與那些內(nèi)心充斥著算計(jì)的人交往，永遠(yuǎn)也不會得到半點(diǎn)回報(bào)。不如多和厚道的人相處，學(xué)著寬厚待人，給自己積攢人緣和福氣，更是未自己的未來鋪路。

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　　無論是在生活中還是工作中，我們都避免不了與人交往，但不是所有人都適合來往。