所謂父母子女一場，是彼此相互陪伴與成長，如果我們不能給予孩子更好的人生，那么也請你別做孩子的絆腳石和豬隊(duì)友。
本期我們讀書會的主題是“父母當(dāng)不了伯樂也別當(dāng)絆腳石”。
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誰都讓自己的子女生活的更好，因?yàn)槲覀冎溃覀冑嵲俣嗟臇|西最后都將會留給子女，因?yàn)槲覀冏叩臅r候什么都帶不走。
父母之愛子，則要為之計深遠(yuǎn)。
有多少父母將其奉為真理，卻誤解了它真正的含義。計深遠(yuǎn)，不是在你有限的能力范圍內(nèi)，殫精竭慮為子女安排好一生，而是學(xué)會放手，相信他們自己的選擇，讓他們擁有掌握幸福的能力。你沒有能力護(hù)他們一輩子周全，最終能保護(hù)他們的，還得是他們自己。
每個人在自己的人生路上難免都會遇到一些小挫折，那么請你堅(jiān)強(qiáng)起來給孩子做個榜樣，因?yàn)榧词菇o孩子再多的金錢，不如教會他擁有一顆強(qiáng)大的內(nèi)心。
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父母的這種愛孩子往往害了孩子，他們的愛變成了控制，因?yàn)閻叟c控制之間的界限不是很明顯，所以你一不小心就會跑偏。
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我們足夠好，孩子才選中了我們做他的父母，
而我們要做的，就是自己足夠的好。
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所以當(dāng)孩子長大后，我們就要適時地的退出，因?yàn)橹挥羞@樣孩子才能學(xué)會獨(dú)立。我們不要在孩子人生的道路上做他們的絆腳石和豬隊(duì)友，請相信孩子一定會擁有比我們更加幸福的人生。
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本期我們讀書會的主題是“父母當(dāng)不了伯樂也別當(dāng)絆腳石”。
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誰都讓自己的子女生活的更好，因?yàn)槲覀冎溃覀冑嵲俣嗟臇|西最后都將會留給子女，因?yàn)槲覀冏叩臅r候什么都帶不走。
父母之愛子，則要為之計深遠(yuǎn)。
有多少父母將其奉為真理，卻誤解了它真正的含義。計深遠(yuǎn)，不是在你有限的能力范圍內(nèi)，殫精竭慮為子女安排好一生，而是學(xué)會放手，相信他們自己的選擇，讓他們擁有掌握幸福的能力。你沒有能力護(hù)他們一輩子周全，最終能保護(hù)他們的，還得是他們自己。
每個人在自己的人生路上難免都會遇到一些小挫折，那么請你堅(jiān)強(qiáng)起來給孩子做個榜樣，因?yàn)榧词菇o孩子再多的金錢，不如教會他擁有一顆強(qiáng)大的內(nèi)心。
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父母的這種愛孩子往往害了孩子，他們的愛變成了控制，因?yàn)閻叟c控制之間的界限不是很明顯，所以你一不小心就會跑偏。
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我們足夠好，孩子才選中了我們做他的父母，
而我們要做的，就是自己足夠的好。
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所以當(dāng)孩子長大后，我們就要適時地的退出，因?yàn)橹挥羞@樣孩子才能學(xué)會獨(dú)立。我們不要在孩子人生的道路上做他們的絆腳石和豬隊(duì)友，請相信孩子一定會擁有比我們更加幸福的人生。
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