（第286篇）父母規(guī)

婉瑜心語(yǔ)

誦讀文 　1) 從此刻起：　　我要多鼓勵(lì)、贊美孩子，　　而不是批評(píng)、指責(zé)、埋怨孩子。　　因?yàn)槲抑乐挥泄膭?lì)和贊美才能帶給孩子自信和力量，　　批評(píng)、指責(zé)、埋怨只是在發(fā)泄，　　我的情緒，傷害孩子的心靈; 　　2)從此刻起：　　我要用行動(dòng)去影響孩子，　　而不是用言語(yǔ)去說(shuō)教孩子。　　因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆拥男袨椴皇潜唤虒?dǎo)而成，　　是被影響和模仿而成; 　　3)從此刻起：　　我要多聆聽(tīng)孩子的心聲，　　而不是急于評(píng)判孩子。　　因?yàn)槲抑礼雎?tīng)才是最好的溝通。 　　4)從此刻起：　　我要無(wú)條件的去愛(ài)孩子本來(lái)的樣子，　　而不是去愛(ài)我要求的樣子;　　因?yàn)槲抑滥鞘俏业淖运胶妥晕? 5)從此刻起：　　我要學(xué)會(huì)蹲下來(lái)與孩子平等溝通，　　而不是居高臨下的指使孩子。　　因?yàn)槲抑缽?qiáng)制打壓只會(huì)帶來(lái)孩子更強(qiáng)烈的叛逆和反抗; 　　6)從此刻起：　　我要用心去陪伴孩子，　　而不是心不在焉的敷衍孩子。　　因?yàn)槲抑乐挥姓嬲呐惆椴拍茏尯⒆痈惺艿綈?ài)的溫暖;? 　　7)從此刻起：　　我要控制自己的情緒，　　和孩子一起安靜和平地處理好每一個(gè)當(dāng)下。　　因?yàn)槲抑榔夂捅┝χ淮砦业臒o(wú)能和對(duì)孩子的傷害; 　　8)從此刻起：　　我要積極主動(dòng)地處理好與愛(ài)人的關(guān)系，　　創(chuàng)造一個(gè)和諧的家庭環(huán)境，　　絕不讓夫妻矛盾影響和傷害到孩子，　　因?yàn)槲抑乐挥蟹蚱揸P(guān)系和睦才是對(duì)孩子最大的愛(ài); 9)從此刻起：　　我要讓孩子長(zhǎng)成他要長(zhǎng)成的樣子，　　而不是我期待的樣子。　　因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆硬⒉粚儆谖遥?lt;/span>　　他只是經(jīng)由我來(lái)到這個(gè)世界，　　去完成他自己的夢(mèng)想和使命; 　　10)從此刻起：　　我要多為孩子種善因，行善事。　　因?yàn)槲抑婪N善因，方能結(jié)善果，　　積善之家必有余慶，　　積不善之家必有余殃; 　　11)從此刻起：　　我要通過(guò)孩子的問(wèn)題，　　找出我自己的問(wèn)題，修正我自己，　　因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆铀械膯?wèn)題　　都是我的問(wèn)題，我是一切的根源; 　　12)從此刻起：　　我要成為孩子生命中最好的朋友，　最親密的伙伴，最慈愛(ài)的媽媽! 孩子，媽媽一直在你身邊陪你慢慢長(zhǎng)大，我永遠(yuǎn)愛(ài)你！ ????

孩子

此刻

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　1) 從此刻起：

　　我要多鼓勵(lì)、贊美孩子，

　　而不是批評(píng)、指責(zé)、埋怨孩子。

　　因?yàn)槲抑乐挥泄膭?lì)和贊美才能帶給孩子自信和力量，

　　批評(píng)、指責(zé)、埋怨只是在發(fā)泄，

　　我的情緒，傷害孩子的心靈;

　　2)從此刻起：

　　我要用行動(dòng)去影響孩子，

　　而不是用言語(yǔ)去說(shuō)教孩子。

　　因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆拥男袨椴皇潜唤虒?dǎo)而成，

　　是被影響和模仿而成;

　　3)從此刻起：

　　我要多聆聽(tīng)孩子的心聲，

　　而不是急于評(píng)判孩子。

　　因?yàn)槲抑礼雎?tīng)才是最好的溝通。

　　4)從此刻起：

　　我要無(wú)條件的去愛(ài)孩子本來(lái)的樣子，

　　而不是去愛(ài)我要求的樣子;

　　因?yàn)槲抑滥鞘俏业淖运胶妥晕?

5)從此刻起：

　　我要學(xué)會(huì)蹲下來(lái)與孩子平等溝通，

　　而不是居高臨下的指使孩子。

　　因?yàn)槲抑缽?qiáng)制打壓只會(huì)帶來(lái)孩子更強(qiáng)烈的叛逆和反抗;

　　6)從此刻起：

　　我要用心去陪伴孩子，

　　而不是心不在焉的敷衍孩子。

　　因?yàn)槲抑乐挥姓嬲呐惆椴拍茏尯⒆痈惺艿綈?ài)的溫暖;

　　7)從此刻起：

　　我要控制自己的情緒，

　　和孩子一起安靜和平地處理好每一個(gè)當(dāng)下。

　　因?yàn)槲抑榔夂捅┝χ淮砦业臒o(wú)能和對(duì)孩子的傷害;

　　8)從此刻起：

　　我要積極主動(dòng)地處理好與愛(ài)人的關(guān)系，

　　創(chuàng)造一個(gè)和諧的家庭環(huán)境，

　　絕不讓夫妻矛盾影響和傷害到孩子，

　　因?yàn)槲抑乐挥蟹蚱揸P(guān)系和睦才是對(duì)孩子最大的愛(ài);

9)從此刻起：

　　我要讓孩子長(zhǎng)成他要長(zhǎng)成的樣子，

　　而不是我期待的樣子。

　　因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆硬⒉粚儆谖遥?/span>

　　他只是經(jīng)由我來(lái)到這個(gè)世界，

　　去完成他自己的夢(mèng)想和使命;

　　10)從此刻起：

　　我要多為孩子種善因，行善事。

　　因?yàn)槲抑婪N善因，方能結(jié)善果，

　　積善之家必有余慶，

　　積不善之家必有余殃;

　　11)從此刻起：

　　我要通過(guò)孩子的問(wèn)題，

　　找出我自己的問(wèn)題，修正我自己，

　　因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆铀械膯?wèn)題

　　都是我的問(wèn)題，我是一切的根源;

　　12)從此刻起：

　　我要成為孩子生命中最好的朋友，

　最親密的伙伴，最慈愛(ài)的媽媽!

孩子，媽媽一直在你身邊陪你慢慢長(zhǎng)大，我永遠(yuǎn)愛(ài)你！ ????

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