《父母規(guī)12條》打卡第13天
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孩子
此刻
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每天朗讀《父母規(guī)12條》一遍，堅(jiān)持100天 。
第13天！
1) 從此刻起：
我要多鼓勵(lì)、贊美孩子，
而不是批評(píng)、指責(zé)、埋怨孩子。
因?yàn)槲抑乐挥泄膭?lì)和贊美才能帶給孩子自信和力量，
批評(píng)、指責(zé)、埋怨只是在發(fā)泄我的情緒，傷害孩子的心靈;
2）從此刻起：
我要用行動(dòng)去影響孩子，
而不是用言語(yǔ)去說(shuō)教孩子。
因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆拥男袨椴皇潜唤虒?dǎo)而成，
而是被影響和模仿而成；
3）從此刻起：
我要多聆聽孩子的心聲，
而不是急于評(píng)斷孩子。
因?yàn)槲抑礼雎牪攀亲詈玫臏贤ā?/p>
4）從此刻起：
我要無(wú)條件的去愛(ài)孩子本來(lái)的樣子，
而不是去愛(ài)我要求的樣子；
因?yàn)槲抑滥鞘俏业淖运胶妥晕遥?/p>
5）從此刻起：
我要學(xué)會(huì)蹲下來(lái)與孩子平等溝通，
而不是居高臨下的指使孩子。
因?yàn)槲抑缽?qiáng)制打壓只會(huì)帶來(lái)孩子更強(qiáng)烈的叛逆和反抗；
6）從此刻起：
我要用心去陪伴孩子，
而不是心不在焉的敷衍孩子。
因?yàn)槲抑乐挥姓嬲呐惆椴拍茏尯⒆痈惺艿綈?ài)的溫暖；
7）從此刻起：
我要控制自己的情緒，
和孩子一起安靜和平地處理好每一個(gè)當(dāng)下。
因?yàn)槲抑榔夂捅┝χ淮砦业臒o(wú)能和對(duì)孩子的傷害；
8）從此刻起：
我要積極主動(dòng)地處理好與愛(ài)人的關(guān)系，
創(chuàng)造一個(gè)和諧的家庭環(huán)境，
絕不讓夫妻矛盾影響和傷害到孩子，
因?yàn)槲抑乐挥蟹蚱揸P(guān)系和睦才是對(duì)孩子最大的愛(ài)；
9）從此刻起：
我要讓孩子長(zhǎng)成他要長(zhǎng)成的樣子，
而不是我期待的樣子。
因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆硬⒉粚儆谖遥?/p>
他只是經(jīng)由我來(lái)到這個(gè)世界，
去完成他自己的夢(mèng)想和使命；
10）從此刻起：
我要多為孩子種善因，行善事。
因?yàn)槲抑婪N善因，方能結(jié)善果，
積善之家必有余慶，
積惡之家必有余秧；
11）從此刻起：
我要通過(guò)孩子的問(wèn)題，
找出我自己的問(wèn)題，修正我自己，
因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆铀械膯?wèn)題
都是我的問(wèn)題，我是一切的根源；
12）從此刻起：
我要成為孩子生命中最好的朋友，
最親密的伙伴。
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第13天！
1) 從此刻起：
我要多鼓勵(lì)、贊美孩子，
而不是批評(píng)、指責(zé)、埋怨孩子。
因?yàn)槲抑乐挥泄膭?lì)和贊美才能帶給孩子自信和力量，
批評(píng)、指責(zé)、埋怨只是在發(fā)泄我的情緒，傷害孩子的心靈;
2）從此刻起：
我要用行動(dòng)去影響孩子，
而不是用言語(yǔ)去說(shuō)教孩子。
因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆拥男袨椴皇潜唤虒?dǎo)而成，
而是被影響和模仿而成；
3）從此刻起：
我要多聆聽孩子的心聲，
而不是急于評(píng)斷孩子。
因?yàn)槲抑礼雎牪攀亲詈玫臏贤ā?/p>
4）從此刻起：
我要無(wú)條件的去愛(ài)孩子本來(lái)的樣子，
而不是去愛(ài)我要求的樣子；
因?yàn)槲抑滥鞘俏业淖运胶妥晕遥?/p>
5）從此刻起：
我要學(xué)會(huì)蹲下來(lái)與孩子平等溝通，
而不是居高臨下的指使孩子。
因?yàn)槲抑缽?qiáng)制打壓只會(huì)帶來(lái)孩子更強(qiáng)烈的叛逆和反抗；
6）從此刻起：
我要用心去陪伴孩子，
而不是心不在焉的敷衍孩子。
因?yàn)槲抑乐挥姓嬲呐惆椴拍茏尯⒆痈惺艿綈?ài)的溫暖；
7）從此刻起：
我要控制自己的情緒，
和孩子一起安靜和平地處理好每一個(gè)當(dāng)下。
因?yàn)槲抑榔夂捅┝χ淮砦业臒o(wú)能和對(duì)孩子的傷害；
8）從此刻起：
我要積極主動(dòng)地處理好與愛(ài)人的關(guān)系，
創(chuàng)造一個(gè)和諧的家庭環(huán)境，
絕不讓夫妻矛盾影響和傷害到孩子，
因?yàn)槲抑乐挥蟹蚱揸P(guān)系和睦才是對(duì)孩子最大的愛(ài)；
9）從此刻起：
我要讓孩子長(zhǎng)成他要長(zhǎng)成的樣子，
而不是我期待的樣子。
因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆硬⒉粚儆谖遥?/p>
他只是經(jīng)由我來(lái)到這個(gè)世界，
去完成他自己的夢(mèng)想和使命；
10）從此刻起：
我要多為孩子種善因，行善事。
因?yàn)槲抑婪N善因，方能結(jié)善果，
積善之家必有余慶，
積惡之家必有余秧；
11）從此刻起：
我要通過(guò)孩子的問(wèn)題，
找出我自己的問(wèn)題，修正我自己，
因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆铀械膯?wèn)題
都是我的問(wèn)題，我是一切的根源；
12）從此刻起：
我要成為孩子生命中最好的朋友，
最親密的伙伴。
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