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婚后的生活沒(méi)有婚前想象得順利，驚濤駭浪經(jīng)歷了一波又一波，感激上蒼留下了我和老公的性命還賜予我們一對(duì)懂事的兒女，感謝父母隨著年齡增長(zhǎng)越來(lái)越體諒，感謝朋友們?cè)诶Ь持械男湃闻c幫助，讓我和老公、孩子能和睦幸福地走下去…
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多一份感恩，多一份包容，
祝愿每個(gè)家庭和睦幸福，
每對(duì)有情人天天都過(guò)情人節(jié)^_^
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多一份感恩，多一份包容，
祝愿每個(gè)家庭和睦幸福，
每對(duì)有情人天天都過(guò)情人節(jié)^_^
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記憶中，我做的唯一一件違背爸媽意愿的事情就是嫁給了現(xiàn)在的老公。一個(gè)來(lái)自山里的平凡得不能再平凡的廚師，他是我在商場(chǎng)打拼到無(wú)力時(shí)出現(xiàn)的一個(gè)能讓我感受到溫暖的人，每天從家里做好熱飯，開上百里路的車送到商場(chǎng)，沒(méi)有花言巧語(yǔ)，放下飯就到倉(cāng)庫(kù)幫我扛貨，一連幾個(gè)月下來(lái)，他會(huì)做的各種花樣的飯都給我做過(guò)，一到吃飯的點(diǎn)同事就開始羨慕我，中午飯間休息時(shí)她們輪流來(lái)勸說(shuō)讓我嫁給他。我對(duì)他沒(méi)什么感覺，但也不討厭他，原來(lái)覺得他長(zhǎng)得太丑，時(shí)間長(zhǎng)了，覺得丑的程度還能勉強(qiáng)接受。或許是因?yàn)橄嗵幍脮r(shí)間多了，慢慢習(xí)慣了，習(xí)慣有人幫我分擔(dān)，習(xí)慣有人不時(shí)送上溫暖。可見當(dāng)時(shí)我是多么缺愛！
多一份感恩，多一份包容，
祝愿每個(gè)家庭和睦幸福，
每對(duì)有情人天天都過(guò)情人節(jié)^_^
記憶中，我做的唯一一件違背爸媽意愿的事情就是嫁給了現(xiàn)在的老公。一個(gè)來(lái)自山里的平凡得不能再平凡的廚師，他是我在商場(chǎng)打拼到無(wú)力時(shí)出現(xiàn)的一個(gè)能讓我感受到溫暖的人，每天從家里做好熱飯，開上百里路的車送到商場(chǎng)，沒(méi)有花言巧語(yǔ)，放下飯就到倉(cāng)庫(kù)幫我扛貨，一連幾個(gè)月下來(lái)，他會(huì)做的各種花樣的飯都給我做過(guò)，一到吃飯的點(diǎn)同事就開始羨慕我，中午飯間休息時(shí)她們輪流來(lái)勸說(shuō)讓我嫁給他。我對(duì)他沒(méi)什么感覺，但也不討厭他，原來(lái)覺得他長(zhǎng)得太丑，時(shí)間長(zhǎng)了，覺得丑的程度還能勉強(qiáng)接受。或許是因?yàn)橄嗵幍脮r(shí)間多了，慢慢習(xí)慣了，習(xí)慣有人幫我分擔(dān)，習(xí)慣有人不時(shí)送上溫暖。可見當(dāng)時(shí)我是多么缺愛！
多一份感恩，多一份包容，
祝愿每個(gè)家庭和睦幸福，
每對(duì)有情人天天都過(guò)情人節(jié)^_^