【陽陽創(chuàng)業(yè)日記第429篇】～聰明人不說的四句話

2020年11月16星期一晴

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說怨話不如多笑笑！

不要遇到一點(diǎn)小事，就滿世界抱怨老天不公。你可以偶爾發(fā)牢騷，但不能整天抱怨，沒有人喜歡整天對著一張?jiān)箣D臉。

你要明白很多時(shí)候，抱怨是沒有用的，抱怨一天遠(yuǎn)沒有努力一會的收獲大。所以，努力吧！將所有的抱怨與不滿都化作動力，強(qiáng)大給這個世界看！

說胡話不如多檢討！

有些人遇到點(diǎn)事，就愛胡思亂想，而且越想越糟糕，越想越傷心。在這種悲觀情緒的控制下，很容易說出一些不經(jīng)大腦的胡話。這些話對你來說，也許只是發(fā)泄，事后你根本不記得自己說過什么。

但是，對于聽者來說，則會產(chǎn)生極大負(fù)面影響。長久下來，誰還敢和你親近？所以，遇事最好的解決方法是趕快找到問題所在，然后解決問題！

說閑話不如多做事！

嫉妒是很多人的臭毛病。有些人看到周圍的人，取得好成績、獲得成功的時(shí)候，就開始議論紛紛，甚至說一些諷刺的話，什么人在他們眼里都有問題。

這樣的人不可能專注于自己的事業(yè)，而會把所有的精力都放在關(guān)注他人的一舉一動上，最后傷害最大的還是自己！

說狂話不如多自省！

很多人都很容易在成功中迷失自己，掌聲、鮮花、恭維……你既然可以取得成功，說明你在這一方面的確是優(yōu)秀的。但是卻萬萬不能因?yàn)橐恍┌⒄樂畛械膱雒嬖捗允ё约海裨捀钦f不得。

須知\"天外有天，人外有人\"，真正的高手向來是不動聲色的。聰明人都懂得如何收斂自己的光芒。

做人智商高不高沒關(guān)系，情商高不高也問題不大，但做人的格局一定要大！說白了，你可以不聰明，也可以不懂交際，但一定要大氣。

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