做最好的父母

李小琴

致家長(zhǎng)朋友們： 為了防控疫情、確保孩子安全，全國(guó)實(shí)施延遲開(kāi)學(xué)，孩子們雖然延遲開(kāi)學(xué)了，但是停課不停學(xué)，家長(zhǎng)和老師要和孩子們一起度過(guò)這一階段。在孩子成長(zhǎng)的過(guò)程中，家長(zhǎng)和老師應(yīng)該始終保持在同一條戰(zhàn)線(xiàn)，那就是為了孩子，我們各司其職。 　　【父母規(guī)12條】希望所有家長(zhǎng)，好好讀細(xì)細(xì)品，做個(gè)好父母，給孩子最高質(zhì)量的培養(yǎng)，為孩子樹(shù)立好的榜樣！ 　　從此刻起：我要多鼓勵(lì)、贊美孩子，而不是批評(píng)、指責(zé)、埋怨孩子。因?yàn)槲抑乐挥泄膭?lì)和贊美才能帶給孩子自信和力量，批評(píng)、指責(zé)、埋怨只是在發(fā)泄，我的情緒，傷害孩子的心靈。 　　從此刻起：我要用行動(dòng)去影響孩子，而不是用言語(yǔ)去說(shuō)教孩子。因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆拥男袨椴皇潜唤虒?dǎo)而成，而是被影響和模仿而成。 　　從此刻起：我要多聆聽(tīng)孩子的心聲，而不是急于評(píng)斷孩子。因?yàn)槲抑礼雎?tīng)才是最好的溝通。 　　從此刻起：我要無(wú)條件的去愛(ài)孩子本來(lái)的樣子，而不是去愛(ài)我要求的樣子；因?yàn)槲抑滥鞘俏业淖运胶妥晕摇?lt;/p> 　　從此刻起：我要學(xué)會(huì)蹲下來(lái)與孩子平等溝通，而不是居高臨下的指使孩子。因?yàn)槲抑缽?qiáng)制打壓只會(huì)帶來(lái)孩子更強(qiáng)烈的叛逆和反抗。 　　從此刻起：我要用心去陪伴孩子，而不是心不在焉的敷衍孩子。因?yàn)槲抑乐挥姓嬲呐惆椴拍茏尯⒆痈惺艿綈?ài)的溫暖。 　　從此刻起：我要控制自己的情緒，和孩子一起安靜和平地處理好每一個(gè)當(dāng)下。因?yàn)槲抑榔夂捅┝χ淮砦业臒o(wú)能和對(duì)孩子的傷害。 　　從此刻起：我要積極主動(dòng)地處理好與愛(ài)人的關(guān)系，創(chuàng)造一個(gè)和諧的家庭環(huán)境，絕不讓夫妻矛盾影響和傷害到孩子，因?yàn)槲抑乐挥蟹蚱揸P(guān)系和睦才是對(duì)孩子最大的愛(ài)。 　　從此刻起：我要讓孩子長(zhǎng)成他要長(zhǎng)成的樣子，而不是我期待的樣子。因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆硬⒉粚儆谖遥皇墙?jīng)由我來(lái)到這個(gè)世界，去完成他自己的夢(mèng)想和使命。 　　從此刻起：我要多為孩子種善因，行善事。因?yàn)槲抑婪N善因，方能結(jié)善果，積善之家必有余慶，積惡之家必有余秧。 　　從此刻起：我要通過(guò)孩子的問(wèn)題，找出我自己的問(wèn)題，修正我自己，因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆铀械膯?wèn)題都是我的問(wèn)題，我是一切的根源。 　　從此刻起：我要成為孩子生命中最好的朋友，最親密的伙伴，最慈愛(ài)的爸爸(媽媽) ！ 　　讓我們一起做合格的父母，給孩子最適合的教育和陪伴。

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致家長(zhǎng)朋友們：

為了防控疫情、確保孩子安全，全國(guó)實(shí)施延遲開(kāi)學(xué)，孩子們雖然延遲開(kāi)學(xué)了，但是停課不停學(xué)，家長(zhǎng)和老師要和孩子們一起度過(guò)這一階段。在孩子成長(zhǎng)的過(guò)程中，家長(zhǎng)和老師應(yīng)該始終保持在同一條戰(zhàn)線(xiàn)，那就是為了孩子，我們各司其職。

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　　【父母規(guī)12條】希望所有家長(zhǎng)，好好讀細(xì)細(xì)品，做個(gè)好父母，給孩子最高質(zhì)量的培養(yǎng)，為孩子樹(shù)立好的榜樣！

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　　從此刻起：我要多鼓勵(lì)、贊美孩子，而不是批評(píng)、指責(zé)、埋怨孩子。因?yàn)槲抑乐挥泄膭?lì)和贊美才能帶給孩子自信和力量，批評(píng)、指責(zé)、埋怨只是在發(fā)泄，我的情緒，傷害孩子的心靈。

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　　從此刻起：我要用行動(dòng)去影響孩子，而不是用言語(yǔ)去說(shuō)教孩子。因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆拥男袨椴皇潜唤虒?dǎo)而成，而是被影響和模仿而成。

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　　從此刻起：我要多聆聽(tīng)孩子的心聲，而不是急于評(píng)斷孩子。因?yàn)槲抑礼雎?tīng)才是最好的溝通。

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　　從此刻起：我要無(wú)條件的去愛(ài)孩子本來(lái)的樣子，而不是去愛(ài)我要求的樣子；因?yàn)槲抑滥鞘俏业淖运胶妥晕摇?/p>","type":1},{"img_height":292,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/3244704/f692bcd7352c469ac77c1801938d3da9__jpg.heic","img_width":360,"is_origin":false,"source":0,"text":"

　　從此刻起：我要學(xué)會(huì)蹲下來(lái)與孩子平等溝通，而不是居高臨下的指使孩子。因?yàn)槲抑缽?qiáng)制打壓只會(huì)帶來(lái)孩子更強(qiáng)烈的叛逆和反抗。

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　　從此刻起：我要用心去陪伴孩子，而不是心不在焉的敷衍孩子。因?yàn)槲抑乐挥姓嬲呐惆椴拍茏尯⒆痈惺艿綈?ài)的溫暖。

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　　從此刻起：我要控制自己的情緒，和孩子一起安靜和平地處理好每一個(gè)當(dāng)下。因?yàn)槲抑榔夂捅┝χ淮砦业臒o(wú)能和對(duì)孩子的傷害。

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　　從此刻起：我要積極主動(dòng)地處理好與愛(ài)人的關(guān)系，創(chuàng)造一個(gè)和諧的家庭環(huán)境，絕不讓夫妻矛盾影響和傷害到孩子，因?yàn)槲抑乐挥蟹蚱揸P(guān)系和睦才是對(duì)孩子最大的愛(ài)。

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　　從此刻起：我要讓孩子長(zhǎng)成他要長(zhǎng)成的樣子，而不是我期待的樣子。因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆硬⒉粚儆谖遥皇墙?jīng)由我來(lái)到這個(gè)世界，去完成他自己的夢(mèng)想和使命。

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　　從此刻起：我要多為孩子種善因，行善事。因?yàn)槲抑婪N善因，方能結(jié)善果，積善之家必有余慶，積惡之家必有余秧。

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　　從此刻起：我要通過(guò)孩子的問(wèn)題，找出我自己的問(wèn)題，修正我自己，因?yàn)槲抑篮⒆铀械膯?wèn)題都是我的問(wèn)題，我是一切的根源。

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　　從此刻起：我要成為孩子生命中最好的朋友，最親密的伙伴，最慈愛(ài)的爸爸(媽媽) ！

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　　讓我們一起做合格的父母，給孩子最適合的教育和陪伴。

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