孩子沒有規則感，我們該怎么辦？

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<p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">這個時代，“熊孩子”幾乎成了一個無處不在的熱門話題，大多數人煩不勝煩的時候，社會上依然還有不小的聲音為之辯解：“他還只是個孩子......”</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">但是一個又一個血淋淋的例子告訴我們，有些事不是一句“他還是個孩子”就能一筆帶過的。<br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">2013年底，10歲的女孩在電梯摔打1歲嬰兒并使其從25樓墜落。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">2014年8月一名正在8樓屋內看動畫片的10歲男孩，用小刀子將施工者下方的安全繩割斷，致使其懸在半空動彈不得，只他因嫌樓外施工的電鉆聲太吵.....</span></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(127, 127, 127); word-wrap: break-word !important;">被割斷繩子而懸在空中的工人</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">這些“熊孩子”有錯嗎？他們當然有錯。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(192, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">但是錯的更多的，是家長！</span></strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子從呱呱墜地到會走路、說話、吃飯、寫字……逐步完成一件件“看似不可能的任務”，以適應這個復雜多變的世界。在這個過程中，他們會做出一些“不當的行為”。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子的一些不當行為其實是在探索，探索這個世界，探索父母的接受底線。<strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果父母此時不對孩子的“不當行為”做出約束，使孩子形成“規則感”，那么未來孩子就真的會出問題。</strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(192, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">那時，悔之已晚！</span></strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子規則感的建立要從小開始，不同年齡有不同的處理方法。如果你還不知道如何給孩子建立規則感，一定要看看！這對孩子未來的影響會遠遠超出你的想象！</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><section class="" data-tools="135編輯器" data-id="93209" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="100%" style="max-width: 100%; width: 657px; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; width: auto; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 5px; margin-left: -5px; max-width: 100%; height: 35px; background-image: url("https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/hNsPGI71IQVz3IIAy45OVhEc9uMib3YplysOib1zLfDrlGly8QfMiaMvvu9PVjYkPgYuDcsGpdu5CQf6mmBt1HANw/640?wx_fmt=png"); background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-top: -30px; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px; max-width: 100%; height: 35px; line-height: 35px; color: rgb(63, 62, 63); background-color: rgb(245, 235, 75); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p class="" data-brushtype="text" style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1.5px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">幼兒園也不能忽視“規則”！</h3></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">幼兒期是規則意識的重要啟蒙時期。許多寶寶難以適應幼幼園生活，上小學后各種頑皮行為、學習困難癥，乃至社會適應不良等問題，這可能都源于<strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">3歲前規則意識的缺失。</strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">其實，規則意識的養成早在孩子逐漸戒除夜奶，學會規律地睡覺、喝奶便開始了。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子3歲前，家長有意識幫他養成規律作息的好習慣，不僅有利于孩子的健康發育成長，還利于他今后學會自律，使孩子受益終身。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">不過要記住，尊重孩子的成長規律和個性發展，是家長教育孩子“講規則”時必須遵守的原則。</span></h3> <section class="" data-tools="135編輯器" data-id="89892" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; height: 1.5em; overflow: hidden; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-brushtype="text" style="padding-right: 15px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 1em; color: rgb(63, 62, 63); display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">規則要合理，重點在于預防</strong></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(249, 151, 144); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">1歲以后，孩子會漸漸表現出對秩序的敏感。一些孩子會開始對生活起居習慣的時間順序或物體擺放的空間等。這個階段，我們需要滿足孩子的秩序感，并利用秩序感建立初步的規則。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果孩子的秩序要求是合理的，不妨接納他的情緒，順應其秩序感發展的需要。對于原則性的需求如果不能夠滿足，就需要靈活變通，通過擁抱共情、轉移注意力等方式來平息他的情緒。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">規則應盡可能地少并且有必要，避免無法執行或最終取消。在說“不行”之前，先迅速地想一想這條規矩是否能長時間堅持，我們希望什么、反對什么，要讓孩子非常明白。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; 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word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">不能強迫孩子服從</strong></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(249, 151, 144); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">應該積極引導孩子表現出適當的行為，可以通過語氣和表情傳達你的想法，可以很堅決也很積極，但不要過度。</span></h3> <h3>幫助孩子學習把握自己的感情孩子發脾氣時，家長應溫和、親密地對待他，直到他停止發脾氣為止。然后直接告訴他怎么做才是積極的、對他有幫助的。如果孩子打人，要用他能理解的話告訴他“我們不打人”、“打人會很疼的”。慢慢地，他就會了解別人的感受了。越長大，規則感越重要！當孩子在3歲半到6歲時，是孩子建立規則感的關鍵時期。這個階段的孩子，逐漸從家里走向學校，接觸到更多的社會，開始了最初的社會化過程。他們逐步地開始知道，什么行為可以去做，什么行為不可以去做。這個時候，父母給孩子灌輸規則意識是很重要的。父母是孩子規則建立的標準我們要意識到孩子的規則來自家長，家長的言傳身教有決定性作用。在自由的環境里，孩子對于父母制定的規則是不抵觸的，父母提出規則的建議時，他們往往愿意接受，并逐漸內化成自身的規則。但是孩子在被建立規則的同時，一面也在不停地試圖破壞規則。他們會用自己的撒嬌或者撒潑來一點點試探規則的界限在哪里？嘗試是否可以通過讓家長難堪的行為來獲得規則的破裂。而當他們一旦通過這種方式打破了規則，他們便會找到攻城的方法，一次次攻城略地。他們每一次面對規則時的撒嬌或撒潑，其實都是對父母底線和邊界的試探。《爸爸回來了》里面有一集，奧莉沉浸于手機游戲，爸爸溫柔但堅定地多次勸告“說好的只能玩一次，這樣不好”后，仍然不甘心交出手機。<br></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">奧莉還生氣地將手機丟到地上扔來扔去，無視爸爸的多番阻止。最后被爸爸抱到墻角進行了半分鐘的“面壁反思”，以示懲罰。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">在奧莉認識到錯誤后，爸爸又對她擁抱表示諒解。沒有訓斥責罵，情緒平和而嚴肅，卻又充滿溫情。</span></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">既堅持了自己的原則，讓孩子明白自己的無理要求，不會因為自己的哭鬧就會有任何的改變。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，</span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(192, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">一旦告訴孩子“不行”時，就一定要堅持。</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">并且，不管在什么時間、地點和情景下，我們對孩子的要求都應該是一致的：</span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(192, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">這件事肯定不行，你哭和鬧也沒有用。</strong></span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">也同樣讓孩子感受到“這件事雖然你做得不對，但我仍然愛著你，不會因為你犯錯就棄你而去”的安全感。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; 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word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">學會對行為負責</strong></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(249, 151, 144); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">在孩子6歲之前，要給他養成一些基本的行為規矩。如果孩子出現了不當行為，要讓他為自己的錯誤行為付出一定代價，比如適當剝奪或者延遲滿足一次他最在乎的東西，或者最想做的事情。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">通過規則感的建立，孩子讓他知道，做了錯事，要為自己的行為負責。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">毋容置疑，我們每一位父母都是愛孩子的，但是，作為父母，我們對孩子的愛沒有條件，但是不代表我們對孩子的愛沒有原則。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; 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display: inline-block; width: auto; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 5px; margin-left: -5px; max-width: 100%; height: 35px; background-image: url("https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/hNsPGI71IQVz3IIAy45OVhEc9uMib3YplysOib1zLfDrlGly8QfMiaMvvu9PVjYkPgYuDcsGpdu5CQf6mmBt1HANw/640?wx_fmt=png"); background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-top: -30px; padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px; max-width: 100%; height: 35px; line-height: 35px; color: rgb(63, 62, 63); background-color: rgb(245, 235, 75); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p class="" data-brushtype="text" style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1.5px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">千萬別做“豆腐心媽媽”！</h3></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">“豆腐心”媽媽，是指那些缺乏原則的媽媽，她們的心太“軟”了，受不了孩子的撒嬌或撒潑，于是常常一邊給孩子立規矩，一邊又幫孩子拆著規矩。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(127, 127, 127); word-wrap: break-word !important;">你給孩子樹立規則后，一定要說到做到，不要因為孩子哭鬧，就輕易妥協！</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子們心眼最為明亮，媽媽不能堅持原則，孩子當然會認為媽媽提出的“不”是可以不被認真對待的。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">這種毫無原則的愛，阻礙了孩子規則意識的形成，也阻礙了他對外界世界的正常認知。</span></strong></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果你從小不與孩子建立規則，這個社會遲早會讓他明白遵守規則的重要性。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">父母給予孩子以自由和平等的教育，這本身并沒有錯，但是自由不能等同于無限制、無規則、無底線，更不是是縱容和無作為。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">我們總是在說要給予孩子自由和尊重，有時候卻恰恰忘了給予孩子規則教育。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(192, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">什么是規則？</span></strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">規則既是邊界也是準則，小到做錯了事需要去道歉，制定的規則需要去執行。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">大到遵守社會規則，堅守道德和道義的約定。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 86, 86); word-wrap: break-word !important;">美國學校給父母的備忘錄中這樣寫道：</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><section class="" data-tools="135編輯器" data-id="88516" style="max-width: 100%; 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