“我媽媽才8歲，原諒她不夠好！”

果兒媽育兒說??愛與責任

<h3>PART 01 我自詡為文字工作者，我以為在我的熏陶下，兒子至少可以受到一些影響，所以每每看見兒子卷著毛邊、胡寫亂畫的作業(yè)本上，那一個個像柴火棍堆成的歪歪扭扭不忍直視的字時，無名火就噌一下從我胸口，熊熊燃燒到頭頂。是啊，一個“學霸媽媽”如何能容忍自己有個書寫臟亂、作文平淡、做事散漫的“學渣兒子”？有一天，看到孩子不好好寫作業(yè)，不好好練字，甚至用墨水在臉上亂涂亂畫的時候，我爆發(fā)了。 “你在干什么？你太讓媽媽失望了！” 也許這是很多家庭的常態(tài)。孩子用調(diào)皮、不懂事，打碎了媽媽對于“好孩子”的期待。<br></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子的眼淚無法澆滅媽媽的怒火，媽媽的痛心疾首也無法改變孩子的拖沓散漫。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">問題到底出在哪里？我想不明白。</strong></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><section class="" data-tools="135編輯器" data-id="93340" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; text-align: center; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: baseline; width: auto; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 5px 10px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); font-weight: bold; border-top-left-radius: 3px; border-bottom-left-radius: 3px; background-color: rgb(251, 178, 178); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">PART</span></h3></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: baseline; width: auto; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 5px 10px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); font-weight: bold; border-top-right-radius: 3px; border-bottom-right-radius: 3px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; background-color: rgb(141, 163, 215); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">02</span></h3></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我沒有放棄，在那之后，我反復的思考。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我翻閱教育書籍，拜訪心理老師，求教同齡媽媽，最終發(fā)現(xiàn)：<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(239, 112, 96); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">兒子的問題，其實是我自己的問題。</strong></span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我寫了一封信向孩子道歉，我不能讓我自己的問題在他身上“遺傳”下去。<br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><section class="" data-tools="135編輯器" data-id="91796" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" class="" style="max-width: 100%; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; width: 50px; height: 50px; border-top: 1px dashed rgb(226, 58, 58); border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: none; border-left: 1px dashed rgb(226, 58, 58); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="padding: 15px 10px 30px; max-width: 100%; border-radius: 15px; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="99%" style="margin: -55px auto -30px; max-width: 100%; width: 630.625px; transform: translateZ(10px); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 25px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); word-break: break-word; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“兒子，媽媽自幼生活在農(nóng)村。生活的艱辛和物質(zhì)的匱乏，讓媽媽總覺得自己如果不夠好，就<strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">無臉面對操勞貧窮的父母，無法給他們一個滿意的交代。</strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，以優(yōu)異成績和優(yōu)秀自己討好父母，減輕生活對他們的刁難，貫穿了媽媽整個上學時期。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">但今天看來，這種<strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“我不優(yōu)秀，我就有罪”</strong>的心理，不僅是有害的，而且讓媽媽在生下你后，開始控制你指責你，覺得如果你不夠好，就是對不起媽媽。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(239, 112, 96); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">對不起，孩子，媽媽找到了自己的問題，愿意慢慢改正。媽媽也明白了，你就是你，一個即便有著這樣那樣缺點，依然獨一無二的你。</strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">媽媽愿意從今天起，努力當一個合格的媽媽，你愿意給媽媽一個機會嗎？”</span></h3></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; width: 60px; float: right; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; width: 60px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.41935483870967744" data-type="png" data-w="62" data-width="100%" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/hNsPGI71IQXLuRDMwzyTYAguDPkFQYu3EIpvdoAgawgdnDiaFa6IJCKibHWFicmmPxPiaADgjXoZp7JUthXq0zj1Vg/640?wx_fmt=png" _width="60px" src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/hNsPGI71IQXLuRDMwzyTYAguDPkFQYu3EIpvdoAgawgdnDiaFa6IJCKibHWFicmmPxPiaADgjXoZp7JUthXq0zj1Vg/640?wx_fmt=png&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" crossorigin="anonymous" data-fail="0" style="max-width: 100%; display: block; height: auto !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible !important; width: 60px !important;"></section></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我把這封信放在他的枕邊，他坐在小床上看了一遍又一遍后，走到客廳里抱著我說：<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(239, 112, 96); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“媽媽，我原諒你了。”</strong></span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我的眼淚刷一下就來了。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(239, 112, 96); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子總是比大人更容易原諒一個人，因為天真的他們更能輕易忘掉不快樂。</strong></span></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">那之后，我慢慢開始放手，讓兒子決定他能決定的，讓他承擔他該承擔的。<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(239, 112, 96); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我們互相監(jiān)督，相互改正，我不再逼迫他。</strong></span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">盡管，他偶爾還會因書寫臟亂，被老師罰抄作業(yè)；盡管他有時寫作文時，還是一頭霧水；盡管他考試還不是班級前幾名……</span></h3><div id="js_cpc_area" class="mpad_cpc " style="margin-top: 14px; margin-bottom: 14px; padding-top: 8px; padding-right: 8px; padding-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 1; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(247, 247, 247); border-radius: 2px; position: relative; z-index: 9999; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><div class="mpad_cpc_inner" style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></div><div class="mpad_cpc_ft single" style="padding-top: 12px; padding-bottom: 12px; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: space-between; align-items: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><div class="mpad_cpc_ft_hd" style="max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><div class="mpad_cpc_ft_msg " style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p class="mpad_cpc_ft_msg_title" style="margin-bottom: 2px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 20px; overflow: hidden; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap; font-size: 15px; max-width: 9em !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></h3></div></div></div></div></div><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">但他在改正錯誤和承擔后果中，書寫越來越有力，作文越來越通順，作業(yè)越寫越快，成績穩(wěn)步提高。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><section class="" data-tools="135編輯器" data-id="93340" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; text-align: center; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: baseline; width: auto; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 5px 10px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); font-weight: bold; border-top-left-radius: 3px; border-bottom-left-radius: 3px; background-color: rgb(251, 178, 178); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">PART</span></h3></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: baseline; width: auto; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 5px 10px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); font-weight: bold; border-top-right-radius: 3px; border-bottom-right-radius: 3px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; background-color: rgb(141, 163, 215); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">03</span></h3></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">上周末的英語分享課上，老師邀請家長們一起參加。其中有個親子環(huán)節(jié)，是讓孩子介紹自己前來聽課的爸爸或媽媽。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">輪到兒子時，他小臉紅紅地站在講臺上，看著我向大家介紹道：</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.4142857142857143" data-type="png" data-w="70" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/hNsPGI71IQXLuRDMwzyTYAguDPkFQYu3TdaDZpaHZtZHsbYGvN8V2Pgf0JBvlKV6pfTnByjnBbWDviaK9NQGA9w/640?wx_fmt=png" _width="70px" src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/hNsPGI71IQXLuRDMwzyTYAguDPkFQYu3TdaDZpaHZtZHsbYGvN8V2Pgf0JBvlKV6pfTnByjnBbWDviaK9NQGA9w/640?wx_fmt=png&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" crossorigin="anonymous" data-fail="0" style="max-width: 100%; height: auto !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible !important; width: 70px !important;"></h3><section class="" data-width="97%" style="margin-top: -27px; margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; padding: 1em 0.8em; max-width: 100%; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; text-align: justify; widows: 1; width: 656.688px; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; background: rgb(252, 251, 238); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“這是我的媽媽，她今年8歲了。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我之所以說她8歲了，是因為，生下我之前，她只是一個女孩子，<strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">生下我之后，她才是一個媽媽。</strong>我今年8歲了，所以，我的媽媽也8歲了。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我8歲的媽媽，有時也不夠好，做事有點追求完美，偶爾還愛發(fā)脾氣，難過時會哭鼻子，生爸爸和我的氣時，竟然懲罰自己不吃飯。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">但是，我很愛她。因為，8歲的媽媽和8歲的我一樣，都不夠好，但都很努力。</strong>”</span></h3></section><section style="margin-top: -21px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.4142857142857143" data-type="png" data-w="70" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/hNsPGI71IQXLuRDMwzyTYAguDPkFQYu3ghEwPosxrhyl8L05lsKEFp1PibvhQderickLcIAtMtY4EibKMjKTia3cGg/640?wx_fmt=png" _width="70px" src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/hNsPGI71IQXLuRDMwzyTYAguDPkFQYu3ghEwPosxrhyl8L05lsKEFp1PibvhQderickLcIAtMtY4EibKMjKTia3cGg/640?wx_fmt=png&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" crossorigin="anonymous" data-fail="0" style="max-width: 100%; height: auto !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible !important; width: 70px !important;"></section><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">那一刻，我再也忍不住眼淚嘩嘩，張開雙臂，跑上講臺，把他緊緊摟在懷里。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">是的，我是一個30多歲的女人，但我更是一個8歲的媽媽。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><h3><mpcpc style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 252, 238); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></mpcpc></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(239, 112, 96); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">謝謝我的孩子，他重新定義我身為媽媽的年齡，并接納我的不夠好和不完美。</strong></span></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">而我，之所以把這個故事和更多人分享，是想告訴你們：</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果你是一個6歲的媽媽，或是一個8歲的爸爸，如果你和我一樣也不夠好，請告訴自己：</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(239, 112, 96); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">沒有關系。只要我足夠坦誠和努力，一切都會慢慢好起來。</span></strong></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><section class="" data-tools="135編輯器" data-id="93340" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; text-align: center; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: baseline; width: auto; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 5px 10px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); font-weight: bold; border-top-left-radius: 3px; border-bottom-left-radius: 3px; background-color: rgb(251, 178, 178); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">PART</span></h3></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: baseline; width: auto; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 5px 10px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); font-weight: bold; border-top-right-radius: 3px; border-bottom-right-radius: 3px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; background-color: rgb(141, 163, 215); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">04</span></h3></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我明白，作為父母，我們多么渴望自己的孩子優(yōu)秀。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">這種渴望，來自于我們知道自己沒辦法永遠陪著他，所以希望他有足夠保護自己的能力，即使有一天，我們不在他身邊。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">不過，媽媽是第一次當媽媽，爸爸也是第一次當爸爸，<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(239, 112, 96); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子，請原諒我們在教育你的問題上所犯的錯誤。</strong></span></span></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我也是最近才意識到，我們一直都是不合格的父母，一直以來對你進行著拔苗助長式教育，太過干預式，簡單粗暴式的教育，束縛了你的手腳，以至于你在今天的生活學習上多增了苦惱。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">仔細想想，你性格上所反映出來的弱點、缺點其實都是我們平時生活中無形影響你的。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(239, 112, 96); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">對不起，孩子，請原諒我們的過失和不足。</strong></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">也請你相信爸爸媽媽今后一定改變思想，改變對你的教育方式和方法。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(239, 112, 96); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">讓我們從今天起，相互指正，共同學習，共同努力，共同進步。</strong></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; white-space: normal; font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; widows: 1; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">無論今后的道路如何，請相信在風雨面前我們一起面對，攜手并肩同行。</span></h3>

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